When I look in the mirror, I never like the reflection of my own in there. I am basically invited to go to the swimming pool for the day with my friends. I would love to and really want enjoy swimming with them, too, but am also self-conscious about taking off my T-Shirt. I am worried that the other at the swimming pool will see on what I looked myself in the mirror. So, I had not gone to the pool than 2 years because I am so self conscious about my appearance.
Many people may think of guys, like me as being carefree when it comes to our appearance. But the reality is that a lot of guys spend plenty of time in front the mirror. That is true for me. I am worried about how I look and what the body image I have. I do not feel comfortable in my body and appearance. It allows me to be unconfident when I have to stand among a crowd of people.
This is a personal’s opinions, thought and feeling about what I think about the physical. It also cause to the feeling of having a self-image. So, how I feel about my body can affect to how I feel about myself. I sometimes feel compare myself to the other to why I cannot be good looking as the other guys are. I know that this is not good to look down myself and it can make me down. However, this is hard to change on what I have believed to my self image.
I have been several time to bounce up myself in changing my body and also given up for many times. Unlike the others, I am less likely to talk with friends and family about my body and/or how I can develop myself to think positive toward the self-image I have.
What should I do? Weather I should not trash myself and change my thought toward a self-image.
