I think “Sex” in Thailand isn’t an acceptable issue. It’s the new topic for conservative society. Most people think that it’s not polite to talk about sex in public. It’s a personal secret. Nowadays, we live in the modern world. It’s the time to open the eyes. I don’t mean that we should follow all western culture because there’s a gap between generations in Thailand. Thai people are confused what sex really is and how to deal it. But we should adapt the advantages of each culture together.
For me, sex is one of human’s basic instincts. It’s a common thing like eating walking or dancing. It creates pleasure and pressure at the same time. Sex is also an important part of lovers. It fulfills human life. However, sex has both good and bad sides. We should realize that sex is one of human life. Don’t let it superimpose us or else we will be as same as animals.
I am quite agree with you about SEX is now able to open more. I sometimes have this topic with friends that‘s not for fun but we talk to have some ideas different which we can have it to make a couple life more happy.
I have learnt that SEX should go together with LOVE. Even though, men are considered that we can have sex around, but it’s not for me. I cannot have an orgasm if SEX happens without LOVE. So, Love is important to me if I would love to have sex with someone.
This topic is quite interesting to me about people is now open in talking about sex with someone is trustable. However, it should have a limitation because we should respect to a partner - SEX is still private issue, and taboo for somebody. People still think different.
Sex is so confidential for Thai women to talk about it. Many of them embarrass to mention it to other people. It’s a long time ago that some Thai women who depend on their husbands became sexual slave. No what matter what their husband said or did to them was absolutely right, no wrong. Nowadays, some poor women who also work and be a housewife think that only the men could showoff their dominant especially in sex activity. Why women become bad person when they want to share sex experiences. They have right over their own body to accept or deny what their boyfriends or husband did to them. I don’t mean to strike the men to be a leader of the sexual activity but the men should listen to their women and treat them as a couple not a slave. I am married and realize that sex is a major factor to a marriage. Sexual topic could be discussed in our bedroom or among close friends. Love by touch is my slogan for lovers. What about yours?
It is interesting to me to see only men can monopolitize sexual topic. It's like men are mostly well-known as the expert of sex, not women. If women is trying to show her expert, she will be regarded as whore, or bitch gal. If woman and man cannot talk about sex openly, how can we share our real feeling toward it and improve it when it is not like as we been taught from oral tradition.
I think society always judge what is right and wrong for us. The culture decides for us what is should and shouldn't. I am the one in this society seeing something are not as true as we have been taught. We. Thai, are taught to be "Kreng Jai" and humble to the face of other, especially, of the elderly people; the rulesetter. I see it's hard to ask back when something went wrong. For me, sex issue is the unheard one in society. Why??? Sin again???? Okay, I will continue to be blush when people talk about sexual affair.
When something cannot be talked openly, the typical reasons I had heard are "it's sin", " it's private affair". It becomes the intruding of privacy. It should be talked only among close friends or your spouse. What happen if your spouse is sadistic and love to see you hurt while having sex? If you shy you will never talk to anybody. If your friend is raped by her boss or colleage, she will keep it secretly. Right?? What about any other problem happened because of sex and it cannot be talk because it's private affair. I can't see it reasonable and practical way to follow this tradition.
For Thai society, a university uniform shows a unity of its place. I think that adult who are former-teen know that a foreign style is affective to Thai teen for a long time. They are likely to apply foreign idea and behavior to be cool among their friends. Wearing a uniform of university student is not a big issue but could make them proud of their college or university. Why they have to wear a private cloths just because they want to. They should obey the university’s rule to keep traditional style of the university. It’s an adults’ duty to teach their teen to recognize and be proud of their own status. They could not imitate for all foreign styles. I think of “culture deviation” to explain a situation when some Thai people, especially for Thai teen, take a foreign style to be a part of their life. They could lose their identity and deviate their tradition or culture to another direction bit by bit. I believe that the college or the university have their own rules for students’ uniform. I could see some very short skirt with a very tight white blouse but at least the university could keep their own traditional style. Some famous universities still keep their own identity by wearing an appropriate and nice uniform. As a Thai people, I think that wearing a university uniform is still valid nowadays. I hope that new generation could cope with foreign influence which is strongly and widely spread out to Thai society. Wearing a uniform is to keep Thai identity which make none of them to be an old-fashioned but be proud of their own life style which take place only in the university for about 4 years not for their whole lives.
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ReplyDeleteI think “Sex” in Thailand isn’t an acceptable issue. It’s the new topic for conservative society. Most people think that it’s not polite to talk about sex in public. It’s a personal secret. Nowadays, we live in the modern world. It’s the time to open the eyes. I don’t mean that we should follow all western culture because there’s a gap between generations in Thailand. Thai people are confused what sex really is and how to deal it. But we should adapt the advantages of each culture together.
ReplyDeleteFor me, sex is one of human’s basic instincts. It’s a common thing like eating walking or dancing. It creates pleasure and pressure at the same time. Sex is also an important part of lovers. It fulfills human life. However, sex has both good and bad sides. We should realize that sex is one of human life. Don’t let it superimpose us or else we will be as same as animals.
I am quite agree with you about SEX is now able to open more. I sometimes have this topic with friends that‘s not for fun but we talk to have some ideas different which we can have it to make a couple life more happy.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt that SEX should go together with LOVE. Even though, men are considered that we can have sex around, but it’s not for me. I cannot have an orgasm if SEX happens without LOVE. So, Love is important to me if I would love to have sex with someone.
This topic is quite interesting to me about people is now open in talking about sex with someone is trustable. However, it should have a limitation because we should respect to a partner - SEX is still private issue, and taboo for somebody. People still think different.
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Sex is so confidential for Thai women to talk about it. Many of them embarrass to mention it to other people. It’s a long time ago that some Thai women who depend on their husbands became sexual slave. No what matter what their husband said or did to them was absolutely right, no wrong. Nowadays, some poor women who also work and be a housewife think that only the men could showoff their dominant especially in sex activity. Why women become bad person when they want to share sex experiences. They have right over their own body to accept or deny what their boyfriends or husband did to them. I don’t mean to strike the men to be a leader of the sexual activity but the men should listen to their women and treat them as a couple not a slave. I am married and realize that sex is a major factor to a marriage. Sexual topic could be discussed in our bedroom or among close friends. Love by touch is my slogan for lovers. What about yours?
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It is interesting to me to see only men can monopolitize sexual topic. It's like men are mostly well-known as the expert of sex, not women. If women is trying to show her expert, she will be regarded as whore, or bitch gal. If woman and man cannot talk about sex openly, how can we share our real feeling toward it and improve it when it is not like as we been taught from oral tradition.
ReplyDeleteI think society always judge what is right and wrong for us. The culture decides for us what is should and shouldn't. I am the one in this society seeing something are not as true as we have been taught. We. Thai, are taught to be "Kreng Jai" and humble to the face of other, especially, of the elderly people; the rulesetter. I see it's hard to ask back when something went wrong. For me, sex issue is the unheard one in society. Why??? Sin again???? Okay, I will continue to be blush when people talk about sexual affair.
When something cannot be talked openly, the typical reasons I had heard are "it's sin", " it's private affair". It becomes the intruding of privacy. It should be talked only among close friends or your spouse. What happen if your spouse is sadistic and love to see you hurt while having sex? If you shy you will never talk to anybody. If your friend is raped by her boss or colleage, she will keep it secretly. Right?? What about any other problem happened because of sex and it cannot be talk because it's private affair. I can't see it reasonable and practical way to follow this tradition.
For Thai society, a university uniform shows a unity of its place. I think that adult who are former-teen know that a foreign style is affective to Thai teen for a long time. They are likely to apply foreign idea and behavior to be cool among their friends. Wearing a uniform of university student is not a big issue but could make them proud of their college or university. Why they have to wear a private cloths just because they want to. They should obey the university’s rule to keep traditional style of the university. It’s an adults’ duty to teach their teen to recognize and be proud of their own status. They could not imitate for all foreign styles. I think of “culture deviation” to explain a situation when some Thai people, especially for Thai teen, take a foreign style to be a part of their life. They could lose their identity and deviate their tradition or culture to another direction bit by bit. I believe that the college or the university have their own rules for students’ uniform. I could see some very short skirt with a very tight white blouse but at least the university could keep their own traditional style. Some famous universities still keep their own identity by wearing an appropriate and nice uniform. As a Thai people, I think that wearing a university uniform is still valid nowadays. I hope that new generation could cope with foreign influence which is strongly and widely spread out to Thai society. Wearing a uniform is to keep Thai identity which make none of them to be an old-fashioned but be proud of their own life style which take place only in the university for about 4 years not for their whole lives.
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